I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up...
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I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up on a scan, and I see it in my own home, too. Being told "you look fine" when you’re barely holding it together is a specific, isolating kind of hurt