For a perfect setup, aim for your nightstand to sit level with the top of your...
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For a perfect setup, aim for your nightstand to sit level with the top of your mattress or just 5-10 cm lower. This ensures you can reach your glass of water or phone easily without straining. Most UK beds work best with a table height between 55-70 cm